
It also encompasses my rebuke of cisgender and heteronormative privilege and the intersection of these privileges with white privilege.

Growing up, “queer” was not a term I heard weaponized - at least not as much as “faggot” - so I recognize that I lack a certain emotional response associated with its use.įor me, queerness encompasses my sexual identity as someone uncomfortable with binary presentation. Vonte Abrams, visual merchandising artist (they/them)

Even as a slur, the word described those who exist outside of what society mandates, so it’s fitting that the term now defies all restrictions of love and self that the world has placed on us. That said, I know how empowering it feels to reclaim words that have been used to harm us, and I appreciate “queer” specifically because it has always carried a sense of undefined abstractness. So I understand why generations before me balk at the word. As an adult, I've been harassed with these same slurs. In middle school, kids followed me home calling me “queer,” “fag,” and more. So yes, queer-bashing was literally a childhood ritual. The neighborhood kids played a game called “smear the queer.” You’d toss a football back and forth, and whoever caught it was the “queer” for everyone to tackle. When I was a kid, “queer” was a pejorative. But when talking to someone with whom I have a rocky relationship, I’ll simply be a “gay male.” For example, I’m queer, trans, non-binary, and Mexican, and this is how I’d express myself to a partner. Identities are personal, but they are also how we advertise ourselves, so they are often very circumstantial, too. Get about 1,200 milligrams of calcium and 600 international units of vitamin D daily from food and supplements.Steven “Z” Patton, community activist and public speaker (he/she/they)

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